the part two of ***

back again with more views on sex...well i feel that i have to express on this topic...coz if i am conversating with someone on this subject, they might missunderstand me...or consider me as a nymph...both are untrue...

the new thought araised while i was reading the book - atlas shrugged by ayn rand...AMAZING book btw...so anyways she expresses her views as...sex is real when both ppl consider themselves equivalent...that players are nothing but kidding themselves, where as they have low self esteem on the contrary to what they portray as...

well i couldnt help but appreciate her analytic thought...evne i had similar ideas abt seeking partnership...if u r weak, overly sensitive...in short sad...dont look out for love or sex to protect u or save u or make ur life full of colour...coz all u might know...it might be just pseudojoy of few minutes and back to sad life.....

as i see it a person should be complete in his own life...i mean he should be satisfied and at peace...i know it sounds wired...but its true..coz then when u get a chance to experience physical joys...u are in it fully...its not being done for a feel better act...its done to enjoy the moment with u and ur partner...mutually...i believe its far more better..

also another aspect is that if u are indulging in physical activity out of stress or despair or desperation...well the other person comes to know of it...even if u dont hint it....and spoils the whole thing...

well lemme know ur view on the blog...

thats it for now..

bye

the true about the ***

well no matter how modern you are or orthodox...one thing is alway just around the corner of ur mind...yes ppl i am talking abt the three lettered word that esp. indians dont talk on large...sex

we see it in all movies, mentiones or hinted on tv....ppl doing it all the time....but then many of us are actually deprived and guilty about it. we cant help but always wonder about some or the other context about sex.

if we forget it for a day, the world around us reminds us...so no use being all saint abt yourself.

we do despise the thickly romantic and players but we do wish to plung into a whole new land like indiana jones, on an adventure...which many of us dont end up doing..just dreaming.

but the thought that crossed my mind is...why do we indulge into thinking so much over it and instead not do it...on an average a youth thinks abt sex for say about half an hour a day..makes 3 n half in a week and 14 in a month...now imagine what its like in a year...

the hours he or she spents in order to make himself or herself as an 'irresistable' candidate...five times that of the thought process of sex thoughts...

the chances of getting laid?? maybe once or twice in a year..sad really..but this is the average...

atleast thats wat my current research and resources suggests..

also to be honest i am thinking a lot abt the way society and individual react to sex...they have stereotypes for it...its sad that one cannot venture along without having few eyebrows raised in his direction..

there is also a fine line between the playboy types and the honest venturer types...to be honest how can u tell the difference between the two??

lemme think over it...

but for now...c ya..